On September 20th, 2011, after nearly two decades in effect, the policy known as “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” was officially repealed. Since being made a law in 1993, it has been one of the most divisive policies in recent years, as it called for gay, lesbian and bisexual service members to keep their sexual orientation quiet. More than 17,000 service members were discharged since it was mandated by Congress. Now, for the first time in history, all active duty military members are able to serve our country openly and without shame.
Our Time: Breaking the Silence of “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell”, edited by Josh Seefried, an air force officer and the co-founder and co-director of OutServe, marks the end of an era of silence, giving voice to the LGBT men and women who served under “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell.” It is a compilation of short first-person essays, written primarily by active duty service members, as well as those discharged under the policy. It details the abuse—physical and mental—endured at the hands of fellow soldiers and superiors, the hardships faced by families and partners, and the pain of the choice between military and self, as well as exemplifies humanity at its very best—leaders who support their comrades, friendships forged and minds opened. Throughout, we are reminded of the bravery and selflessness of the men and women who choose to serve our country and defend our liberties while their own freedom is withheld. Josh Seefried and contributors Jonathan Mills, Katie Miller, and Karl Johnson share their stories.
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